In this case, your obvious question is ‘am I gay’, which can also effectively be ‘what is my sexual orientation?’ Before we even put out the boxes (for you to put yourself into), there are three points to bear in mind, simply because feeling attracted to alcohol doesn’t make you an alcoholic. Having said that, people do ask themselves questions about their sexuality at many ages and at different points in life, so let’s acknowledge that it’s never easy! This plagues many adults too, who often confuse being emotionally comfortable with each other as sexual attraction. It can be of many kinds-emotional, physical, intellectual, and sexual, but quite like an oasis, attraction can be real or illusive, something you will never know until you discover which is it.īeing physically attracted to someone who dresses or carries themselves well, is comfortable with their body, or is confident or charismatic maybe different from being sexually attracted to them-which is more to do with desiring a sexual encounter or continued physical intimacy. If you enjoy such kind of kink, you may want to visit PORN.Response by Aditi Surana: Attraction is a wonderful thing-closely comparing to the poetic description of the Sanskrit word ‘mrugjal’ meaning mirage, which in Sanskrit is explained as ‘the longing of a thirsty one yearning and hoping to be quenched’. Men are known to be horny a lot of times, either straight or gay so being attracted to each other eventually is never an issue. Their stamina and libido almost match and so it will not be hard for one of them to keep up with the energy and enthusiasm of the other. So, straight men would definitely enjoy being with a gay man because they can have as much anal sex as he wants. But men enjoy anal a hell lot because it is tighter and the butt is generally hot and arousing. It is a hit or miss for a lot of women because it hurts and it is dry.
Straight men find this incredibly hot because women in both porn and in real life-are quite iffy about anal sex. This is how they achieve penetration if not done through blowjobs or handjobs. Curious GuysĪnother thing about straight guy porn is that gays tend to have lots of anal sex. It is hot because the straight guy is not a hundred percent sure with what he is doing-if this is right or wrong-but eventually succumbs to the euphoria anyway. It is as if you were that hot and desirable. This is how straight guy porn thrives, the feeling of making a straight guy curve for you is just purely rewarding. Of course, this is only in the initial part because the straight men are still shy and innocent to such an act-once he gets the grasp of it, the straight man may feel manly again and get a hold of the situation. But in gay sex, the gay man despite being the bottom-can quite kind of lead and guide the sex. There is a heavy pressure put on their backs to give good performance in bed that it sometimes becomes all about just impressing the woman and not actually having fun. With women, the straight man would have to be the one to lead and guide. He makes him calm and sure he will have a good time, even better than when he is doing it with women. This is where the gay dude comes and leads him, carefully as to not scare him off. Meaning, initially he does not like what is happening, because it is new and raw and foreign to his feeling. In a lot of straight guy porn, the plot is usually about a heterosexual man who is naive and ignorant about gay sex. Straight guy porn often refers to sex videos of two men with one being evidently gay-as shown by mannerisms and actions, and the other as straight and manly, obviously. Especially gay viewers who jack off to this kind of porn, the idea of being wanted and preferred to girls by straight men is just extremely arousing. For some reason, the idea of a straight man being attracted to a gay man is sort of hot-it just fuels one's confidence and esteem. Gay men are always stereotyped as liking men who are straight.